( Thanks Allah).
Once we say about love, it's not something that can be played with. It's all about heart, about you, about him/her, and its all about life. Life cant be anymore interesting if we dont have any passion to love or to be loved.
Anyway, love comes with the heart, it beats all the time. Love also can makes people act differently. That's why ada kata-kata pantun melayu:
" Nasi lemak buah bidara
Sayang selasih hamba lurutkan
Hilang emak hilang saudara
Kerana kasih hamba turutkan "
Love is always shown in different ways also. Love from a husband, he will let u do whatever you want, just be anything, just be you. He doesnt have time to give you a bouquet of flowers, doesnt have time to spend every minutes with you, doesnt have time to think about any emotion on you. But he knows better you, will encourage you with his silent, will see you in his eyes with passion, will give you strength with his hugs, will give everything you need even though he is not with you. ( Thats why dont demand too much).
Love from a mother, cant see any hurts falls into your life, cant see any difficulties on you, cant feel any hurts anymore because of you because she had suffered much from the BEGINNING of you... till the END of you. She had suffered much, and no one can beat the mother's love unless u feel like a mother and act like a mother, then only you know. i can see the broken heart of my mother when my sister passed away early 2009, and from that point of time, i feel so bad, because in every single step i made sometimes i ignore her feelings, till the end of my death later, i know the one who suffered much is HER. Anything, if i can do, even it really hurts me, even it makes me turn down, anything, i will do as long as the soul within me, to make her very happy, no more worries about me, no more tears because of me, all i want is she feel grateful, having a daughter like me.
Love from a father, he had no longer words for you, because everything had been given. He had given you feel like your own, having your own decision, guiding you everything from the born of you, seeing differently and positively in every difficulties, considering all matters before making any decision, and he will blame himself for the wrong decision of you, without you knowing, as long as you learn from it, he will teach you follow the guidance of Allah closely, and when you really becomes a women/men, he will see you from far, if you fall, just call him for the guidance, he will let you know the truth path, if you want to follow, otherwise, he will let you go with yourself, because no strength without falling, no mature without failing, no you without giving you chance to flying.
People say, love comes at first sight, love comes with friendship and knowing each other, love comes in many ways. As for me love Allah is the most important thing, because when we love him, we will follow the guide, do whatever you want on earth but please follow MY rules. By the end of the day, you will be buried also as others, the one you carried along not the love but
1) Ilmu yang diamalkan
2) Anak yang soleh dan mendoakan
3) Harta yang disedekahkan
Heart, emotion and rational minds can be conflict. It will sometimes crossed, surely we'll not happy when it happens. But in real life, He gave us thought to make us different from any creature. Human kind strength is when he can controls the emotion and lets the thought make the decision. Always, the decision with strong minds, are always painful, but thats the way to see your life getting better.
In anything you do, just remind, the blessed of your life comes always with the blessed of your mother. Sometimes we feel hard to go forward, hard in rezki, hard in life, just check whether you had 'something' with your mother. Because life cannot be turned back, be careful with every steps because she is also living with the soul within, given by ALLAH.
